what the hell is wrong with this girl?! and I say girl because calling someone with the mentality of a 5 year old a woman just rubs me the wrong way.

After BM texting SO this morning and telling him that he is going to have to start taking SD Fridays again instead of Weds like we have been doing (because she "told him not to fuck with her and this is what he gets") and after him telling her that ok if thats what she wants he will take her Friday...this is the ensuing conversation:

BM:How can you take her Fridays if your working? Or did you lie in the first place?

sidenote: SO and BM agreed to switch friday visitations to weds so that he could work more hours in mediation.

BM:The funny thing is is that my lawyer is also a private investigator and he will have no problem finding out who's watching violet on fridays....wether its your mom or Lady. Cuz I know damn well it won't be you. He could go to the bar u could serve him a drink and th next week you will see him in court and you'll have to explain to the judge why your not with SD during your parenting time.

Sidenote: So doesnt work until 9pm when SD is asleep anyway sooooo......

BM: I love to watch you dig your own grave, its so fun.
BM: we can have your talk at 4 today but I can promise you it wont go your way.

So, SO and I get in the car because we need to go grocery shopping and drop SD off at BMs house on the way. Typically when I have to go along on the drop off for whatever reason, SO will drop me off at a park down the street and he will go drop of SD and then come pick me back up...because BM has a PPO against me for violent stalking...whole nother bullshit story there. I don't really care, it pisses me off sometimes but I only have 2 months left on the thing and then trust me, I will be sitting in the car at EVERY pick up and drop off, watch me.

Sooooooo, we are driving and BMs sister sees us as she is pulling down there road and what does she do, runs into the house and tells BM that I was in the car....So when SO got there to drop SD off (I was at the park)...this was the convo:

BM: wow, really? you have to go pick up your girlfriend hurry along now.
Bm: (laughing with glee) your so pathetic and she is so lame, what is she scared of me?

SO didn't say anything lol even though a good smack up the head would have been nice...ummm, I have to be inconvienenced because I am not allowed within a mile of you or some bullshit, so fuck off bitch.

Then we get these texts:

BM:Its funny that Lady thinks she can be a better mom than me but she cant even take the time to brush SDs hair LOL, you are so pathetic SO, you want to talk to me and I give you the chance and you cower away like a hurt puppy. grow a pair of balls and learn to speak for yourself. but you never will. you have to speak cuz Lady wants you too, you could care less about seeing SD, Lady wants too. pathetic.

BM:You make me laugh with your pitiful attempt at being a parent. Wow ....you really prooved to everyone u can be a good parent. You can't even brush her hair LMAO.your a sad excuse for a human being.

BM: face it SO, your never gonna beat me

Ok FIRST of all, I ALWAYS make sure SD looks presentable before we take her back for this specific reason!
SO is a 26 year old guy for heavens sakes, he doesnt know the difference between a hair tie and a bobby pin!!!!!!! AND she just woke up from a nap! She was napping, we put her in the car and brought her too you. FUCK OFF!!!!!

I seriously hate this bitch. I hate her. She has NEVER made an effort to meet me, the only time I have ever interacted with her was in court when she got the ppo against me. And I had only texted her a handful of times before that regardding the schedule. WTF??!!!

Can we show these and MAKE the effing judge read them??!! The fact that she said "your never gonna beat me" all gleeful should show that this is a fucking game to her and she doesnt give a SHIT about SD unless she can use her somehow in her fucked up little games!

excuse my french btw, but I am fairly pissed.