:jawdrop: I had several miscarriages, after marrying my husband who has a daughter from a previous marriage. They split up , when sd was 3. I met him and fell in love with him, when she was 7 and then married when she was 9. I went into the marriage with nothing, but good intentions. I did everything I could for the sd without stepping on her bm toes. Now 34 years later I still have my heart broken on a regular basis, when BM or SD is around, or see posts on Facebook.