I really need some advice ladies. I have two step daugther one is 8 the other one is 10. My husband and I have been married for 3 yrs. And we have two lil boys one. Is 3 and the other one is going to be three months. We'll anyhow ihave been having several issues with this woman since my husban and I got together which we have been together 4 yrs now. My recent issue at the moment is that my step daugthers mother decided to dye the girls hair with out commenting it to my husband.