horsemom1's Blog

Quiet Weekend

SS went to BM house for the weekend it's like my old life has resurfaced.....His dad and I have agreed that he will enforce house rules set up when he moved in or I will shop to releive stress. Shopped yesterday and really enjoyed myself. His dad will do all the talking and punishment so I have to only tell him what's not being done but I don't have to deal with SS anymore. I told BD that if he doesn't do what he says they boy goes back to mom's I don't care if hes in school or not he can drive a little longer if he can't obey the rules.

resolution

Think I'm gonna invest in some good wine and just have a glass or two each day. talked with my husband and he want's to know whats wrong with me? SS was watching TV not doing chores when asked SS about it he went outside and called father told him completely different story than what had happened. I had already had a phone discussion with BD so he knew what I said to SS.

Ungrateful stepson

Stepson moved in with us after failing to secure financil aid for college. He and his mom told his father a number of times they were working on it but when graduation came they said they dropped the ball. We split tuition with his mom he moved in with us to commute to save dorm fees. My problem is that he has a you owe me attitude. He was given a list of responsibilities like clean his room, bathroom and do his laundry. He has to be reminded about each item and then half does them.

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