My stepson has been in my life 19 yrs he is now 23 and still makes so much problems between the wife and I. the latest is he had an old truck and wanted to trade us for a Suburban had. it came down to my wife doing the trade without me being there. so when i came home she told me that she had "a Xmas gift for me and said don't be mad" I didnt get mad I was happy to have that truck. so I started fixing that truck up nice. my stepson would come over and when he seen the truck he would pout about how much he miss the truck now that it looked good.