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Submitted by herewegoagain on Tue, 06/15/2010 - 10:08pm

I trust all of you and I'm stuck on what to do...

We are having a bday for my son's 9th at our beach apts...my husband's best friend (they let us stay 2weeks at their apt free a few months ago) has two kids whom my kiddo really likes. His wife is a sweet but not very "smart" socially type of girl and I do want to invite them, HOWEVER we went to the beach w/them once (that was enough for us) w/them and the kids and she wore a Brazilian Tanga type bathing suit! No coverup or anything! She bent over right in front of my husband and gave my husband and I a wonderful view of her butt! She always wears very skimpy bathing suits...she does have a great body thanks to plastic surgery...hehe

So we want them to come but are afraid she'd wear the same thing and make the rest of our friends very uncomfortable...what should we do?

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Submitted by stepkate on Wed, 06/16/2010 - 6:26am

If it were me, I'd invite them, but I would enjoy laughing at people's reactions.

Maybe you could give them a generic-looking invitation that mentioned something about a dress code? Or just hint to her husband about it, if he's of decent intelligence?

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Submitted by stepoff on Wed, 06/16/2010 - 8:20am

Both suggestions are good. How about a combination: include a blurb about a dress code on the invite that mentions that because it's a child's party, all adults 'please be sure to cover their derriere'.

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Submitted by herewegoagain on Wed, 06/16/2010 - 8:58am

Thanks for your suggestions! I really was stressed w/this, but I think all the suggestions are really going to help...I hinted some of these to DH last night and he was cook about them (we were up súper late!). He even thought the watching people's reactions was funny too!