Do your DH's act like AHOLES on Father's Day?
This is the 3rd or 4th year in a row that Father's Day turns into a disaster. I am pretty sick of it by now. My DH HAS to eat breakfast or lunch by 11AM or he turns into the devil. Well, sure enough, he didn't eat breakfast yesterday at the hotel, although I told him to eat something. I kept bugging him and he just said he was fine. He later said he'd drink a beer instead. Ahole. So, at 1PM I told him to go get a beer or something (because honestly, I was sick of seeing his pathetic face). Years ago every darn father's day turned into some crying BS about his dad...now he no longer does that, but mopes around. You know, I don't even know if he called his stepdad or if his pathetic mother called him, etc...because if they did, I wans't around...which is interesting since we were at a hotel. My father on the other hand called him. We ended up having a crappy day and of course, he blames me. No, it was him. Every freaking year he has this long face and is an ahole...It is NOT my fault nor our son's fault that he has such a fuc#$%45ewd up family and his daughter is such a loser. I am just fed up. I told him that next year, he could spend father's day alone. I am tired of the moping around and then blaming everyone else for his crappy day. Mind you, he is a VERY happy go lucky guy most of the time...I even set up the weekend to go to a hotel and have some R&R for Father's Day. Honestly, I don't care anymore.
I am so very sick of having to pay for the crappy upbrining and crappy family he has had...it is NOT my fault. I have been supportive, but at this point, he can shove them all...and next year, come father's day, he can sit around and be an ahole all by himself waiting for his pathetic family to give him a call.
Is it just him or do some of your DHs turn into aholes too?
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My DH doesn't turn into an a
My DH doesn't turn into an a hole, but that's probably because he has our bios to take his mind off things. We had a nice day with a good meal and presents the bios picked out for him. If we didn't have the bios he would've waited around all mopey for the stepkids to call.
I don't know if it's because
I don't know if it's because DH becomes an aholes or if it's because I become one...
but we haven't had a good father's day since I can remember..
I guess I'm the one that
I guess I'm the one that turns into an a-hole on Father's day... and DH just plays right along too....
It was Father's Day???!!!
It was Father's Day???!!! Silly me, I thought it was dh and sd day since dh picked her up (on a weekend we usually don't have her) and left me to be a single mother to our son while he kissed her ass all day.
It was a disaster. DH let me
It was a disaster.
DH let me sleep in and then was complaining I was making him late to do errands. :?
He got progressively worse as the day went on. The boat trailer tire split so we couldn't go boating as planned. After cussing at me about the boat he went outside to cut grass.
SSons were with us, they tried to help him with yard work and they of course did a half *ss job. DH tries to show SS15 the right way to mow and ended up cutting the lawnmower cord twice, more cussing. DH then yelled at SSons to get into the house and do what they do best - watch TV.
I asked DH what he'd like for dinner and he barked that he'd make it himself (he usually cooks). I just gave up then.
I let him cuss at me and be a turd the rest of the day. He was just a total jerk to everyone. Happy effin Father's Day :sick:
Hell ya my DH was a complete
Hell ya my DH was a complete ahole all day yesterday. Good god I for once wished I was dead or we were divorced. Then at the end of the day he had the F-ing nerve to blame it all on me for being moody.
EXCUSE ME!!!
I had planned to be rather nice and deal with the SD's because both SD's wanted to do something special for him. One had money to buy something for him and the other did not and wanted to do a breakfast in bed thing. I thought I would make a cake. Believe me I regretted every bit of yesterday.
I did not even join in when they took breakfast in bed because he already copped and attitude with me when he was in the bathroom I merely walked in the room and told him if he wanted to make his daughter happy. He needed to get back in bed (because he was already asking where is clothes was) bla bla bla
All I did yesterday is break my F-ing back for his damn kids and he acted like a SHIT HOLE toward me all f-ing day.
So the whole shur raid of breakfast in bed went off and the other SD gave a present to him. At the time I thought it was morning he was being grouchy I blew off his attitude during the morning. I had made everybody’s breakfast that morning (which I do not usually do.) When his kids are here I usually have him to cook breakfast for everybody and usually when I start breakfast he usually takes over.
Nope I work the kitchen most of the morning. Help the SD to cook breakfast for father days (cook for the f-ing pig that’s going to act like an ass all day) Cooked for the two kids and myself. ( the only good thing I got out of this day is the SD's praising my cooking which is usually weird because they usually like their dad to cook for them, who knows maybe they thought something was up and got scared)
Anyway I cooked I washed the F-ing dishes. I hate washing dishes and it seems like I could never get away from the sink. When I got that done I went outside for a little while to listen to some music off my phone and my older SD set with me listening.
We sat there for 15 min and here came A-hole, set beside me
blame me that all I was doing is setting around playing Farmville to much that is all I wanted to do that I have not done anything about putting up our property for sale so we can move. This is my entire fault!!!! I needed to get up off my ass and do something about it. First off it is my property it was my money that purchased it. Secondly I am not going to take out a mortgage on the property to buy property up here, I do not think we would get the full value out of it and we would lose in the long run. Some screw ball in his family said we should take a mortgage out on our property buy what we want and just let the other property go to the mortgage company. PFFFFFT!! What the hell.
Well, later on he became Jack the two face ripper, all of the sudden a nice part of him popped up wanted to go to the mall with the girls, which we did, we walked around the mall, looked at books, looked at camping gear, and then I walked to the water fountain and he pushed me out of the way (playing as he put it) and I knocked his hat off his head and he took offence to it said he would remember that and walked off away from me like we were not together. What the HELL!!!!!!!!
He waits until night time to say everybody hates him at work and apparently everybody at home does too. That somehow I am acting like that I do not like him.
This morning he brought the whole issue up about he wished I would cheer up!!! OMG
GAG!!!!
Excuse me but I had plan to be happy yesterday but it seems like you wanted me miscible with you. One of us supposes to be happy up..... How the hell is one going to be happy when the other is miserable? Especially since all he did is ragged on me. Acted unappreciated.
Good f-ing god. This will be the last time I will ever help the girls making a happy f-ing day. Must have spent too much time with them.
I do not even know what yesterday all was about!!!! I know one thing this is about the 2nd maybe 3rd father’s day that went to hell. I sure in the hell do not want to see another one. I hope by next year I am not here for it either.
I plan to check out of my family on this f-ing day!!!!!!!
Ah, nice...it seems a
Ah, nice...it seems a somewhat common occurrence...Great. Next year, I am taking off. He can spend it with our son if he wants or I will take our son. I am NOT dealing with this crap another year.
It's too bad he can't be
It's too bad he can't be thankful he has you and his son...