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CAN'T SLEEP TOO WORRIED

help78's picture

OK so in my last blog I told you about the situation with SS15. Now today DD has to go to court to find out how much child support he has to pay for SS15 being locked up. I am freaking out because we are barely affording our bills to begin with. I understand that he is a parent and should financially take care of his children but it is not him that committed the crime it is SS. This is really making me hate SS more then I already did. So they tell DD in family therapy that it is not his fault blah blah blah then they tell him he has to pay. Am I missing something? BM wrote SS to tell him she has to pay too which I am sure is going to piss her off and cause her to start trouble with me. Personally I think the county is just trying to pressure DD and myself into taking him back after his sentence is over. Do I pay the pill and live with this crazy devil child or do I become homeless? I don't know how this is going to go but I am the one screwed no matter what. If this place asks me one more time if I am sure he can't live here after I am going to scream. What I want to say to them is " you take him home... let him hit your husband....molest your child ....punch holes in your walls.... you deal with the asshole". Of course I wouldn't do that and I don't even think DD wants SS here anymore. Sorry just needed to vent

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Well we got the first support judgment and it is not too bad. Nothing yet on where he will be but as long as it is not with me I am fine with it. They keep calling about family sessions with me and BF but I am not ready yet to hear his sorry excuse of why he did the crime.