As a long time lurker I finally broke today. I needed someone to vent to that understands. I suckered myself into thinking that since the kids refused to have contact with SO it would be fine. I mean they were getting what they wanted 24/7 partying, drugs, and alcohol with there dope dealing mom/BFF. I wish that was just hearsay or a disillusion hatred story I made up, but it isn't. SO got served with paperwork at his work for child support. Which is really funny because BFF and step kids have the address, saying child support is going up over $300 because he didn't show up to court.