Most days I just roll with the punches of all the crazy shit BM does and says, and the stupid shit she puts SS5 through. We are going through a Motion to Modify Custody to clarify things that normal people should not have too. If it's not specifically word for word spelled out for her she refuses to follow it, and in some cases even if it is she wont follow, by twisting things around to make them fit her current mood. She changes personalities more times a day than freaking Paris Hilton changes clothes!

BM was "layed off" last November, conveniently after we received a large judgment against her for Attorney fees and such from some of the numerous court proceedings we have gone through. Funny thing is she also got wrote up 4 times in one week right before she was layed off. I think she just didn't want to work, because she thinks if she doesn't work then she wont get her check garnished for the judgment we have against her, and the other judgments she has against her.

You see BM got prego with her boyfriends baby. She only dated this guy for a month before getting pregnant, and he only stayed around for maybe a month after she got pregnant. BM had the baby last week, and I am fairly certain that she has no intentions of ever getting a job again. BM refused everything in the Motion to Modify, but counterclaimed for more child support stating that there had been significant changes in the parties income. IE. shes lazy and doesn't want to work so she is going to collect from her baby daddy's. We figured it up, and between what my SO already pays fro child support, what it could be raised to, and what her new baby daddy will likely have to pay for support, and all of her (poor me/handout/govt assistance), she will make just as much money, if not more, than she did when she was actually working!

I am all for Fathers supporting their children, but it just seems wrong to me when lazy BM's who think the world owes them, because they couldn't keep their legs closed, and they pop out a baby,work the system like BM does! UGH! It hacks me off! She is nothing more than a drain on society!

Since BM doesn't work she picks up SS5 from school until SO and I get off of work, then we have to hunt her a** down to find him and takes so much time out of the evening, that by the time we get home, and get dinner cooked, its usually bath time and we don't really get to spend a lot of time with SS5. She also has a habit of changing SS5 out of the nice (mostly name brand) clothes we put him in to go to school, and putting him in mismatched crap that I would never send him to school in. We lose all of our nice clothes because I am not going to send him to school wearing mismatched clothes that are out of season, or way to small, or way to big, or stained. Last night we get done with his soccer practice and instead of putting him back in the nice clothes that I sent him to school in, she put him in a long sleeve thermal shirt and silky red shorts (in 80 degree weather). SO asked her why she didn't put him back in the clothes we sent him in and her response was they are mine, I sent him in them. WTF?! Really? She had called him earlier in the day to remind him to bring back, this pair of brown shorts that she sent SS5 in (which barely covered his but cheeks) that were size 12mos, so her newborn could wear them this summer. We can't afford to keep buying him all these nice clothes for him to wear and her to keep. What are we supposed to do when we run out of decent clothes to put him in? SO plans on bringing this issue up when they go to mediation, but that is not until July. Ugh! She just irritates me so much sometimes!!

I am so irritated with all of her stupid crap! Why can't she just be normal? Is that really to much to ask for?

OH I almost forgot!!! BM just had her baby, right. Well, she never changed her last name back to her maiden name from my SO's last name. So when she had the baby you would think she would either give it her maiden name for its last name, or like in normal cases, it would have the baby daddy's last name. NO! She gave the baby my SO's last name! WTH??? Doe's the baby daddy not have any say in what his child is named? Cause I know he is not very happy about it. I know it is tradition that children take on their father's last name,but aren't there rights for the father as well?

I know this is long and probably jumbled but I just don't understand the things she does, and I get frustrated sometimes, and I need to vent. Any feedback or suggestions would be appreciated!