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Submitted by Haelsunderfire on Tue, 01/05/2021 - 9:26am

Hello everyone, as I've said I've decided to split with my husband. Today is a hard day. There will be good days and there will be hard ones. I love him so much, but i want to love myself now too. I don't want to love miserable because of he's not a true partner and because his kids are rude disrespectful and always asking him into leave me 

 

so today ok this day when I'm feeling a bit weak and depressed, I ask for some words of encouragement. Encouragement to be strong. 

The then 2-year old step son

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Submitted by Haelsunderfire on Mon, 01/04/2021 - 3:18pm

I'm posting sporadically, and in no chronological order, only what comes to me.

I was into the first year of my relationship with my then boyfriend and was living with him and his two eldest children (SS11 and SD8). I left everything behind om the city, my carrer, traded my car, my family, becuase I wanted to be with him. We fell in love quickly. 

Leave her...she is the source of our unhappiness

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Submitted by Haelsunderfire on Sun, 01/03/2021 - 9:40pm

Before my husbands daughgter did what she did to us, they were already difficult step children. I believed in being strict and enforcing the same rules I will instill in my children to my husbandfs three childrent. They didn't like it. My rules were not anything crazy. They were, help with one chore a day, wash your dish after you each, and no laundry after 7PM (laundry close to our room and loud). Apparantly this was way too much to ask of them.

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Submitted by Haelsunderfire on Sat, 01/02/2021 - 9:13pm

So if you read my first entry, you read my husband I decided to separate. His daugher is a big issue due to CPS involvement, multiple lies, manipulations, and terrible attitude. Aside from the step children issue, my husband has not been the kindest person. Despite evertything.