I am really glad that I found this group because I actually feel like I am going insane. I have two children of my own who are 20 and 18. I thought that once they grew up I would have my freedom back and I was completely happy about that. Then 3 years ago I met my now husband who is also a father to 3 boys. The youngest boys ,who are 5 and 7 years old, I have absolutely no issue with. I don't like their useless and moaning mother but the kids are fine. The older boy, who is 12, he lives with us because his mother is alcoholic.