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i threw a tantrum yesterday

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Submitted by green stepmommy on Thu, 08/28/2008 - 7:20pm

things have been better, my family unit has been functioning well enough for me to not even feel the need to get on this site and spill for quite a long time now, i have been mostly content. sometimes, happy. i caught my stepson cleaning his room (this never happens), then he informs me that he wants his room to look good when his mom comes over. daddy promised his mommy she could come over. am i wrong to be furious about not even being asked if i would be ok with this?

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Submitted by green stepmommy on Sat, 03/31/2007 - 1:46pm

at work yesterday, i felt like i was bombarded on all sides by issues of a sensitive nature (for me, anyway). i swear, there was nothing in my own life that was getting to me today, until this one guy that i work with started up on his saga of the problems that he and his ex-wife were having. nothing really to do with the kids, even. they are good friends and work well together where the kids are concerned. he is just distraught b/c he can't figure out why his ex has been standoffish lately, not wanting to talk or hang out.

any advice would be appreciated

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Submitted by green stepmommy on Mon, 03/12/2007 - 2:14pm

my stepson made me cry the other day when i went to pick him up from school. i was looking forward to seeing him b/c my husband and i have been working so much lately, we have only been able to see him one day each week, when we normally have two or three. we have really missed him, and he called us the night before crying and freaking out. he wanted us to come pick him up that night, but his dad had to be at work, and i had to be in class, and he had to be at school very early the next day.

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Submitted by green stepmommy on Tue, 03/06/2007 - 10:43pm

my husband just told me that i have made him bitter. i guess i should be glad that one of us can admit to it

my conflicted mind part1

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Submitted by green stepmommy on Tue, 02/27/2007 - 2:56pm

is it special to have a child with someone? i think that it must be, but i can't say so from experience. my husband has been dropping little hints lately, but i am to cofused to even consider anything like that. we have been a couple for 3 yrs now, married for 1. i love him and my stepson with all of my heart, but all of my jealousy issues with the ex wife have tainted everything. im not saying that i am not happy or would want to be out of this relationship, im just saying that he's already done this with somebody else.