I am a stay at home mom with my bio-daughter, we have a step-son whose mom works and leaves him with her family members. Why shouldn't I be considered the primary care-giver when she works??? We are currently trying to attempt joint custody but its like the courts don't acknowledge I exist! I provide a stable, consistant healthy child environment as there is already a child here. Our son is split between households now as it relates to the bio-mom's house and her relative's home. I need help!!!!!!