I had the talk with the SD and SS last night and it went really, really well. So well that I came downstairs after talking to them and SO said, "That was quick." It was really a non-issue and I feel silly for stressing out about it now. I went into SD's room and sat down and said, "I want you to be honest with me, my feelings won't be hurt. When you have events like you had tonight, would you like it if (my daughter) and I were there?"

Immediately her face lit up and she nodded. She said, "I really would have liked you to be there."