My DH and I have been married for 4 years. I have 4 kids who live with us (now 20,17,16, 3)and his daughter is now 7. When we first got together I liked her and liked being around her but ever since we had a daughter together, now 3, I do not enjoy being around his daughter and dread his weekends of visitation. I just don't see her as my child. I resent the $1,100 a month he has to pay her mother in support. I know she is only a little girl and I feel bad because he only gets to see her twice a month for 1 overnight each time because of his work and how far away she lives.