How can BM make up lies and say that BD hurt his daughter on purpose. Since BM dad is a cop they have handled it like he was a criminal from the begining. I am confused know why the charges can't be dropped but instead they are using them against him in order for her to gain full custody from a 50/50 situation.

Is it so wrong that I have completely eliminated myself from my stepdaughters life. Ever since my h's ex went to court I stopped helping with her homework, worrying about buying her clothes and paying for medical bills, I also stopped picking her up and going to extra activities. My life has been so much better since I have done this but I wonder if this is a bad thing and hope that my SD figures it out when she gets older that her mom is a major B**ch. Can someone please give me any suggestions or tell me if I am doing the right thing?

Well I know that I posted recently that our GAL spoke with SD and SD7 told him that he wanted to spend equal time with both parents. Well that has all changed when one of BM's family memebers contacted the GAL telling them that SD had a change in heart. Needless to say everyone was told last week what SD's thoughts were and know all of a sudden one of her family memebers thinks she has a change in heart. So GAL went to the school met with SD and SD told him that she wanted to live primarly with BM and see us everyother weekend. We currently have 50/50.