Kids will get away with all that they are allowed to get away with...right? Ours do not even ask me for stuff any more, SS says I drive too hard a bargain! DH is really, really, getting tired of the twins now, they made 19 and are totally self absorbed and if it's not serving them they do not want to know! I can dismiss their disrespect, they are disrespectful little twats but that's their fault and not mine. What I loath is the total lack of consideration for anyone but themselves. DH is doing a course of chemo and they are still making demands! DH ripped each of them a new one recently, though, he's sick and tired of it...welcome to my world buddy! I will not say 'I told you so' but ohhhhh I am sorely tempted at times. He gives them what they need now, a huge step forward! He also works SS hard when he does a graveyard shift, runs him ragged...LOL. Now SS has a full time job, he will be able to pay his own way. His first paycheck is his, that's a rule I made, and after that he gets to pay RENT!! If he does not want to pay rent then he has to leave, that's how other folks got rid of him LOL.
The rent will be cash, cash goes into my wallet so he'll have to hand it to me every pay day. I will save it for a rainy day though, or maybe I'll get me a new bedding set, or drapes, or....wake up and have your cheerios Giveitago! LOL