Have a question.....my DH got custody of his son last year, then BM went on the war-path, and has been trying to get him back, she took us to court, and the judge was/ is considering it, saying to us that the order was only temp.... Well SS has been wanting to go back to BM anyway...to many rules at our home, BM has done a good "brainwash" job on him as well..so he's been tough to live with lately...he's 13, tough age, and has been subjected to alot of drama. My DH is supposed to go to court on Aug 9- for the judge to tell us where SS is going to live...