This weekend my BS14 and BS05 went to my mom's house for the weekend. So it just left me, DH, and SS11. Everytime SS11 comes over he never says hi or address me, DH has to tell him too, and when he does say hi I swear DH coached him in the car. Either way I really don't care, it doesn't bother me, I just think he wasn't taught better not his fault and I don't take it personally, DH does care. So when he came in I had my TV headphones on (I swear I am going deaf so I wear these special headphones that tunes everyone out but the TV) so when I see DH I take them off and he tells me oh SS11 said hi but you had headphones on. Anyway everything went good, I think his behavior is less annoying when my boys are not home, but then again I didn't really see him all weekend. SS11 and DH husband basically spent all weekend together good for them but DH made a comment like it was the best time he had in a while (oh so time you spend with me is nothing??)and my feelings were a little hurt.