So where to start. Me and my OH got together in May of last year, through difficult circumstances due to him being a friend's ex (a lot of abuse for about 2 months)but that's another issue. So we fought to be together and he started to slowly introduce me into conversation with his kids, get them used to me. Eventually I met them and we got on great, I met the In Laws who I get on with amazingly still and everything was pretty much perfect...