Okay guys, I saw on another post where many kids these days are deciding when and IF they will even go to the NCP's for visitation. We are beginning to have this issue with my FSD(10), but vary rarely, only if something cooler is happening at BM's house. Now, my BD(4) has just begun visitation with my Ex EOW, from Friday after school until Sunday at 7 p.m., many times she doesn't want to go. She has been visiting on this schedule since April, at her Paternal Grandma's house, where she has spent a lot of time and is very comfortable.

Don't know if I have ever felt this hopeless about my future with FH...I need y'alls help! (Yes I said y'all, I AM from the South!) At this moment I am miserable...my FH quit his job in June due to a lot of reasons I won't get into here (incase any crazies try to read my blogs...)and I was 100% supportive, thinking he would be so much happier not having to go there every day. Well, now he is just as unhappy being at home. And it's starting to piss me off to tell you the truth. I get my ass up and go to work EVERY day, while he does nothing but lay around and watch movies.

I have offered my X every other weekend with our daughter and one night during the week, to have dinner, visit, or whatever. He has yet to take me up on the one night a week (It's been 6 weeks or so since I offered). One night last week he planned on picking her up from school to spend some time with her (she is 4). He said well since I would only have a few hours with her, she should just spend the night. I disagreed, mainly because it was a school night, and she doesn't even have a room of her own there (he lives with his mom).