My problem has been going on for 25 years. My Mom met my step father after the death of my grandparents, when I was in high school. He could fix things and do some of the things my grandfather use to be able to do for her. My senior year in high school he was playing around on my Mom's bed and the three of us were there. She did something that made him feel like he needed to get back at her and so he three me on the bed and put a hickey on my neck to get back at her. This was suppose to be funny.