Most of my posts about SD10 have been pretty harsh. I wanted to record for posterity (lol for my selfish reasons) a good story. I guess you could say I wanted to share.

The other day, we were dropping off BDs10 and 8 of mine and we were on the way back. I had SS12 and SD10 with me. I don't remember how it came up, but SD10 said, "I am upset with Mommy"

SS12, "SD10, What is up?"

I was not going to get involved unless I had to.

SD10, "She didn't give me a birthday party because we had to go to court"

Counseling is going great! Counselor HAD talked to BF about SD10 and some other variious things. She hit him hard with the "Freedom2005 should be the number 1 woman in the home" LOL She had to draw him a picture. She also agreed that SD10 also acts younger than her 10 years when she is around her Dad.

He listened! I am so glad too. He has been pulling away from her a little, showing more affection in full view of ALL the kids. Now, they are small, and I don't expect him to fully shun her, that would be just as bad!

Ya know, my BF states that he does not like drama, yet when it comes to his lovely daughter, he is so wrapped up!

This morning is an example. My daughters, BD10 and BD8, and SD10 were getting ready for school. As they were walking out the door, I noticed that SD10 had one of my daughter's backpacks. Now, I know that SD10 does not have a backpack of her own, and I would not have said anything, but this was my BD10 backpack. Oh, and SD10 had been giving one of my BD8 back pack a few weeks ago!

I have not posted about BF's ex, the BM because I don't normally think about her. BF and I use to talk about her a lot, his venting and asking advice. She is not a problem for me, other than what she does to her kids. She does not even really cause problems for BF, other than being needy every once in a while.