My husband and I have been married for about 6wks now. has 3 children from previous relationships and custody of one. The boys are 12, 10, & 8. The 8 y/o lives with us and is constantly telling me how "grandma does this and did that" when they lived with her. He is constantly trying to correct the way I do things as though if it isn't the way grandma did them its wrong. My husband will explain to me how his mom does things, almost like a justificafion for why his son is telling me about it.