well I’m in Limbo. After 18 months of dating a man with a lot of guilt about his family, putting up with cancellations at last minutes, so he could baby sit the grandkids, I’ve now been dumped because G, who has refused to meet me has told him it’s her or me. He has asked for a reconciliation but I can’t see a way forwards. He speaks to them all daily and I do respect him as an excellent  to parent but this is just the last straw