H is always telling me I had a deprived childhood but I think he's just jealous. He was raised in a large city by a single father who was gone most of the time. FIL had to support 3 kids by himself and worked 2 jobs. I was raised by my father and grandmother, my bm flitted in and out of our lives when it suited her. I grew up in a small town where everyone knew everyone so you couldn't get into any trouble because your parents knew about it before you got home. We lived on the family farm, my dad taught at the local high school.

H just announced that he is going to take a job driving over the road. He would only be home one weekend a month. I told him there was no way I would stay in a house alone for that long with sd. So he decides she will go live with MIL, he hasn't asked her if it's okay or not. MIL doesn't even want sd in her house so why does he think she'll allow her to live there?? His mother and sf are not in the best of health and can barely take care of themselves much less sd. Then he says that before he leaves he's going to have the internet and satellite disconnected.