I just wanted to say hello. I've been lurking for quite a while. Honestly, I've been a little hesitant to actually join, but decided what the hey. I've read some of the drama going on here, and I'm a little nervous of saying the wrong thing or offending someone. I'm a mother and a stepmother, and with all the chaos going on in my house, I'm sure I'll become an active member. I feel like I already know several of you from your blogs and posts, and I hope I can offer the same wise advice some of you have given others here.