OK My question is this, I need ideas on how to punish my SD6 when MOM and DAD wont spank her. I spanked her one time and it was the end of the world. Keep in mind her dad and I have her full time. We have taken away TV, Toys, enforced cleaning, took away grandmas house for the weekend. We cant take away going to Moms for the weekend. Not allowed to spank, Tried timeouts, tried to have her write sentences about what she did wrong. NOTHING IS WORKING it seems like its getting worse. Please help !!!