Recently have been in arguments over text and phone calls to my husband from his ex wife. He tells me that she calls and most of the time he doesn't respond. Last night she called back to back and then text. When I ask what she wanted he first told me that it was nothing and that he didn't want to discuss that, that we should have better things to talk about. Well finally he shows me the text and was she says is....."Your wife has changed you, because in all the 20 yrs I have known you I'm always 3rd in your life.