I am so glad I have found this site. I need to vent so badly.

Background: I am a recently married woman to my husband, who I do love, who happens to have three children, aged 10, 7, and 4, two girls and a boy, respectively. They live with their biological mother most of the time and my husband (excitedly) takes them every other weekend and holiday, as well as any other time their lazy assed mother decides to ditch them so she can spend our money on spa days with her fat friends.