After a 5 year relationship, 3 of those years engaged, I finally ended my unhealthy relationship.  The hard thing is when it wasn’t his kids weekend we were ok, so what I thought but the arguing got worse, and my daughter that’s 10 took notice.  She has had a lot of depression lately.  Not just blue feelings but a lot of depression.  I found out after talking to her about her feeling of is splitting she was so happy to have him and the kids out of our lives!