My boyfriend and I are talking about moving in together in about a year. He has two really nice kids. His son is 16 and daughter is 11. They have their stuff as all of them do. I notice though that my boyfriend opens his house to his son's friends a lot. I'm talking about sleepovers several nights a week. While there isn't any drinking going on or anything bad, it just seems too much. I know it's summer but I'm thinking if I was living there now I wouldn't or could't handle this. I work 40 plus hours and my boyfriend is disabled and is awake a lot at night because of his health condition.