My husband and I have been married for 6 years. After my first marriage, I swore I would never be with another man who had children. But against my better judgement, I did. At first I got along great with my then 14&12 year old SD's. I gave 110% into those children, whom did not have set visitation they would just come hang out when they wanted. I went above and beyond in including them and inviting them to do things with my husband and I. I had my daughter from a previous marriage who is 11 now, 5 when I married my hubby.