This is really hard for me to put out in a public forum, but I feel as if I need to go somewhere anonymous so it doesn't cycle back to to my bonus kids mother's and have it get twisted. But, here goes.. My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for over a year now, we have been friends for almost 2 years. We started talking while he was going through his second divorce and I was in a low point in my life as well. Shortly after we officially started daiting, we got our kids together for the first time. We went to our local zoo and spent the day there. It was fun, HOT, but a ton of fun!