WHY do I even bother?
Yeah yeah...I know I said I was disengaging but I had to put forth one more effort for my sanity. I took it upon myself to call the school today to get the access code for the parent portal. I have only been asking DH 3 weeks now to take care of it. I don't want Thunderfoot to fail simply because I don't want to be stuck with her a moment longer than I have to be. When she graduates...I want her out! Although I am beginning to think this is never going to happen...her graduating or getting out. The counselor wouldn't give me the code because I am not listed on SDs paperwork. She apologized and asked that I get DH to call and get it and also update SDs parental information. He does not need to put me on there...he just needs to get the code. I text him the name and number that he needed to call at 10 in morning. He got home at 2:30 and I asked had he called. No not yet. He was messing around in the garage for an hour or so then came in to take a shower. I asked again. No still haven't called. He gets out of the shower and goes to the bus stop to get Thunderfoot. When he got back he was outside for a while so I figured he was calling then. I went outside and asked AGAIN...have you called? "Well I did call but they shut the phones off at 4." What in the fuck! I have only asked you for 3 weeks to do this! Then I get the name and the number for you and you STILL can't take care of it!?!? "I will call first thing in the morning." Sure you will...I leave him in the garage to do whatever he is doing.
I came in the bedroom to lay down and he came in and said something. I guess he didn't get a cheery enough response from me. He said, "Great...what have I done now. You are mad. What is up?" At first I just said nothing is up. Then he said, "I really want to take about it because I don't want us to fight all night." OK...you asked for it! So I told him I am TIRED of the way things are around here. I am TIRED of her not cleaning her room. I am TIRED of her not washing her clothes! I am tired of her not washing her dishes! I am TIRED of the mess she leaves in any bathroom that she enters! We are planning to move and I am NOT moving when things clearly are NEVER going to change! His response to me? "So basically you can't stand Thunderfoot?" I said, "No I didn't say that." He then said, "Then she just gets on your nerves." I said, "Basically yeah she does." Then he said," So you're saying I am a bad parent and not doing my job. Who asked you to do any of it?" No one. He is exactly right. NO ONE asked me to do any of it and therefore none of it ever gets done. Live in filth you bunch of assholes! I am not cleaning up after either one of them ANYMORE! I am not cooking. I am not doing anyone else's laundry(his included). I am not walking his dog. I am not picking her up at the bus stop. I am not doing SHIT if it does not have something to do with me or my dog! He must have gotten spoiled too because he throws his dirty clothes just wherever the fuck. There is a hamper right beside the door as you enter the bedroom. Do his clothes EVER make it in there? NOPE...I put them in there. Not anymore. I will move my happy ass into the spare bedroom and those assholes can live in their own fucking filth.
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Then this asshead comes in
Then this asshead comes in here and asks me when was the last time I was in the fridge out in the garage. Pretty sure I haven't been in it in a while but apparently he knows better than me and tells me that I got something out of it Sunday...well if you know so fucking much...why did you ask? Then he says,"Please be sure you remember to shut it back because it didn't get shut all the way and now I have to defrost it." You can tell ME that but you can't tell your kid to clean up after herself? Why don't you go jump off a cliff you MF!
and how would he feel if you
and how would he feel if you continue to leave the fridge door open over and over and over and over again even though it bothers the crap out of him and causes more work for him? Maybe bring that up to him
I am pretty sure I am NOT the
I am pretty sure I am NOT the one that left it open...he was. He got ice cream out of there last night so how was it me? But see that directly effects HIM so heaven forbid that continue to happen!
Oooh I would make sure I
Oooh I would make sure I leave the freezer door open EVERY damn night until he calls the school!!!! }:)
~ Moon
I used his famous line back
I used his famous line back on him. He always says to me, "I would do anything in the world for you." So I threw it back in his face. I said, "You've always stated that you would do anything for me and you can't even make one simple phone call?" That went over really well! LOL
He's always totally oblivious
He's always totally oblivious to why I am pissed...or at least he pretends to be. I found another thing to bitch about this morning of course! LOL She leaves her shoes just wherever. My puppy found her converse this morning and was running around with one. Of course I HAD to say, "Well, if she would put them in her room where they BELONG, he wouldn't have them. I'm thinking I might just let him chew a pair up to teach her." She has some cheap flip flops that I would love to let him have. He actually has found them, laying where they weren't supposed to be, and I got them from him. The only reason I WON'T let him is because he doesn't need to learn bad habits, not because I give a shit about her shoes.
They are always left beside
They are always left beside the computer in the kitchen (the kitchen, dining room, living room are all connected). That is a GREAT idea though! I am def going to do that and the meat thing too! HAHAHAHA!
She won't be getting any new
She won't be getting any new anything! She can't even do what she is asked to do around here...and that's not much! Just CLEAN UP after yourself! It's not that difficult really.
LOL She can't use that one.
LOL She can't use that one. DH never married her BM. She is the result of what I am assuming was a VERY DRUNKEN one night stand! At least I am hoping by the looks of her mother! But she can use the...my mommy gave me away when I was 6 months old. THAT is why DH coddles her so much. Get over it...everyone has bad shit happen to them!