So my boyfriend of 1 year is a SD - children ages 11 (boy) and 13 (girl). He and I have a lot in common - he's a good guy but here goes the drama...he's been divorced for almost 7 years, it was a bitter divorce so he and his ex do not speak. He has 50% custody and his schedule with the kids is EVERY OTHER DAY. His only free night is Friday and Sunday afternoons - any time between 3 and 5. He created the schedule so he can see his kids everyday. He is a great devoted father - but I don't feel there has been much time for me and to nurture our relationship.