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Why is Dads house expected to be Disneyland?

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Submitted by Emerald on Mon, 12/19/2011 - 9:34pm

Why is it that when the skids come visit we are expected to entertain them 24/7 but when they are at BM's it's business as usual? Since when is it BD's responsibility to keep them entertained while they are here? Why do we have to give a fking list of what activities we are planing when they visit to BM?? Cant they just come visit and hang out here like they do at BM's? We have EVERYTHING here same as BM has. they each have their own rooms with TV'S they each have video games and computers and cellphones.

Ok I need some real advice.

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Submitted by Emerald on Mon, 12/19/2011 - 6:57pm

Here's the deal, I touched briefly on what evil bitch did on thanksgiving, not wanting to take them to the airport. So we have tickets this time, the skids say they are excited to come on the 31st but what if evil bitch doesn't take them to the airport? What can we do, she agreed in the CO that when we pay for the travel she will take them to the airport.

My question is if she doesn't take them do we call the local police and fax them the CO to force her to take them? do we call our good friend and have them get the skids and take them? what is our course of action???

Should I even bother?

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Submitted by Emerald on Sun, 12/18/2011 - 2:38pm

I want to try and explain to SD10 that we will not be buying them any gifts that they take to BM's. Like I said in an earlier post it has never been that way, if we buy them gifts we give then at our house and they stay at our house especially since we now live 400 miles away. So should I even try to explain this to SD10 or just drop it? SS14 already gets it. Also should we even bother to send anything IE: Cards etc.. not sure they will even get them.. or just wait til they are here on the 31st for their two week visit.

Was I wrong?

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Submitted by Emerald on Sat, 12/17/2011 - 9:17pm

Hello all I'm new here and I have so much bottled up inside me that I have kept to myself for six years. I will try and keep this brief. You see for years BM has pretty much taken over the holidays even though we have a CO that states we have 50/50 custody. She always rubs it in my husbands face that he doesn't have a huge family so her family and her new husbands family are more important. Like my family doesn't count at all!! That makes me so angry. She always has some reason to take them extra time on Thanksgiving and Christmas.

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