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Ugh, SD20 is SO trashy

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Submitted by Elizabeth on Mon, 05/06/2013 - 8:19am

Her boyfriend is 26 with six kids with four women. You can imagine these kids don't get to spend a great deal of time with him. So he's posting online a photo of Sunday morning in daddy's bed. Who's in there? SD20 and three of this guy's kids. Are you kidding me?!

They've only been dating for 4.5 months. WHY does she have to spend the night with him when he has his kids? Isn't that a GREAT example for them? Clearly she only cares about herself and how much time SHE can spend with him. I just find the whole situation gross.

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Submitted by Elizabeth on Mon, 05/06/2013 - 8:34am

You got that right! What I can't figure out is how she gets so many damn things handed to her and her life flows so smoothly, all the while she's just about as trashy as you can get. She got a job as a resident adviser in her dorm next year. How is that even possible considering she spends every night sleeping with her boyfriend, either with him in her dorm room or her at his house?! Wouldn't somebody notice that? Don't they frown on that kinds of behavior from RAs?!

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Submitted by Elizabeth on Mon, 05/06/2013 - 8:38am

The "funny" thing is, neither DH nor BM modeled this behavior for her. BM and DH divorced with SD was 2 and BM remarried when SD was 4. DH remarried when SD was 3 and it didn't work out, but even then he made sure that woman only spent the night when SD was not there. DH and I met when SD was 5, married when she was 8, and I never spent the night while she was there. It's a sacrifice, yes, but it's the right thing to do when you are NOT married, in my opinion. So she never saw this and was lead to believe it was OK. This is all her own doing. Besides, imagine how many women the older of these kids have had in and out of their lives with all the other kids he has.

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Submitted by z3girl on Mon, 05/06/2013 - 9:36am

*THIS*

SD just turned 15 when I finally met her. DH and I had been dating for 3 months before I even met her. The one time I EVER spent the night with her was a couple months later, when DH called me to come hang out with them because they were bored. I spent the night on an air mattress alone in the living room. DH had a long term gf prior to meeting me, and they dated a year before DH introduced them.

Luckily I think my SD is too anti-baby that she wouldn't date anything with kids...she needs to be the priority to anyone who knows her.

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Submitted by Elizabeth on Mon, 05/06/2013 - 9:27am

Especially since he's bragging about not using a condom? You're right this is just a game, I just hate to see it play out, mainly for those poor kids.

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Submitted by Willow2010 on Mon, 05/06/2013 - 9:09am

They've only been dating for 4.5 months. WHY does she have to spend the night with him when he has his kids
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Wow…I “dated” my DH for about 8 years and never slept in the same house if any of our kids were home. Just was not what I wanted my kids to be raised around.

What a ho.