Remind me again who DH is married to?
Because I'm not sure he remembers. We went looking for a house this weekend and all weekend DH was texting SD19 our every move. They were joking back and forth about where we are moving to. I was to the point where if I saw him pull out that phone to text SD19 one more time, I was going to throw it out the window at a high rate of speed as we were driving down the highway. She is a GROWN WOMAN and NOT your wife. Why are you communicating OUR every move to her?
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it amazes and horrifies me
it amazes and horrifies me how many sd's act like sd19. yours may be a little worse, but that's only because fdh won't play her damn games. if he did. i'm sure she would be just like yours are.
when i was pregnant a few years ago, she saw that as a person who was going to be taking money meant for her. bitching about not getting a car or having daddy pay for college. 2 things that weren't going to happen on our dime any damn way! while she was trying to work up the nerve to tell us she's pregnant (i already knew because she sucks at hiding things), she asked me if we were going to have any more kids. why does that matter? is she worried about us having money to spend on hers or does she think because she's starting to have kids that i have to stop?
fdh's dumb bitch sm is the one who likes to stick her nose in our finances and question what i'm doing to contribute as if it's any of her mf'g business! funny how no one asked questions when fdh was laid off and i was the only working and his brat was living here full time off of me while bm paid nothing. funny how no one had anything to say when i moved in and paid his way overdue property taxes and bought a new furnace and stove for this dump. no questions asked then!
it was only after i lost my job and fdh was the one working that the questions started rolling in. i had unemployment, not that it's any of their business. i just think it's disgustingly hypocritical that it's ok for me to be the only one working and supporting him and his asshole kid, but it's not ok for him to work and for me to have unemployment coming in. i did send that bitch a nice little message letting her know what i think of her constant gossip and asking questions about me to everyone but me. funny how she has yet to show her face since recieving that message...
She's not moving in, she has
She's not moving in, she has nothing to do with this house. She doesn't need a blow by blow of our every step while we're house hunting.
Whenever DH is sitting on the
Whenever DH is sitting on the sofa texting his girlfriend it drives me nuts. He sends her a text and then constantly picks it up and checks for a response. Seriously???
The other night I was not feeling good and he asked me if I needed anything. I said I would love a slice of toast with PB and a half glass of milk. He said okay and sat there and sent a text to his kid. I waited. Then he got a response. I waited and he sent her another text. This goes on for 20 minutes.
I finally get up and DH asks me what I've doing. I said getting something to eat because your too f**king busy talking to your little girlfriend to bother with your WIFE.
What pissed me off even more than that?? He was leaving for a 3 day long business trip the next day.
This is sooooooo common.I
This is sooooooo common.I have my ups and downs with similar stories here.SO is working on it though.
But having to watch SD7 hanging and glueing on her dad when we are out makes it damned hard to enjoy my time with them, it makes me feel like third wheel and leaves no emotional space for feeling to be a part of a couple.And yes, I get angry , that she thinks she gets away playing this role of taking completely over her guilty overprotective dad. sometimes I just want to run away!!