Have been trying to organize/purge our lives. We moved to this state one year ago. Going through boxes in our garage and found tons of stuff he kept from his former wife (not BM, he was married once between BM and me). Pictures of her, cards and letters she'd written, etc. I threw away the cards and crap but didn't do anything with the pictures. I told him that night they were still there and I needed him to do something with them. Why the hell did we move boxes of former wife memorabilia with us from one state to another? That is ridiculous.

What does DH say? Well, one of these days let's just make time and go through them. Um, that is your crap. Why would I want to go through it with you? (Am secretly disappointed he didn't just say, "Let's torch it all" or immediately go dump it in the trash, but whatever.)