Been married for almost 2 yrs. My husband came into the marriage with 3 boys 1 girl, I have 1 girl 1 boys. they range between 9-18.. His two oldest boys have horrible anger issues toward their father, which affects the rest of us. When they come on the wknds its a living hell. whats worse is that most wknds they are there my husband has to work, so its just me. I have told him that the 2 older boys can no longer come if he is not there. they become violent towards the other 4 kids. they curse, talk inappropriately and I could go on and on.