As I posted before, BM refused to sign the CO. FDH's attorney *finally* calls and says the CO was sent to BM's attorney for BM to sign; BM finally signed and, it had been sent to the judge to sign. We get the CO yesterday and the whole thing has been re-written!

The first clue something was up was the fact that FDH's - who signed the CO *first*, the day after court to be exact - signature was *not* anywhere on the document. At first we're thinking maybe they courthouse sent an unsigned copy to BM's lawyer. Anyway, FDH tells me to go ahead and read it to make sure he didn't agree to anything "stupid." So I read it and almost had a heart attack.

The judge's ruling in the court room was 91 days summer visitation, every Christmas, and every other TG and NY, and every other weekend if FDH gets stationed in GA again - providing, of course, FDH is stateside. This is the paperwork FDH signed. This is in no way, shape, or form what the CO that we got signed by BM says.

To begin with, the CO we got in the mail says that the 91 days summer visitation is "subject to the approval of the scheduling of the mother." Um, so if BM doesn't approve, FDH doesn't see his son? This was on the 2nd page of the CO; at the point I asked him if that's what he signed and what the judge said. FDH says "he11 no!" so I started reading it out loud to FDH.

The CO then continues that if and only if FDH see's his son for the 91 days in summer every summer will he get further visitation which will start in 2013!!!! So according to this document, BM has the right to tell FDH no to summer visitation, yet if he *doesn't* see his son for summer visitation, then he is automatically denied any other visitation. Oh, and lets not forget, FDH is scheduled to deploy next year, so there's an automatic visitation there's no way for him to get.

Anyway, beginning in 2013, provided he has maintained his 91 day summer visitation schedule, he gets FSS every *other* Christmas, TG, NY provided FDH is state side.

Finally, the CO goes on to state the FDH has to continue to pay CS through college should FSS decide to attend. No mention of how many classes he needs to take, progress he needs to make, grades he needs to maintain - nothing. Just to be clear, this is *not* starndard in the state of GA.

FDH has been trying to call his attorney all day today and has also sent his mom to her office to try and figure out what the he11 is going on. His mom also read the CO and when I talked to her this morning about what is in the one we just got, she also said that's not at all what was in the one she read on they day FDH went back the court house to sign the CO. I hope to he11 BM's attorney gets disbarred for this. Now everything is starting to fall into place. *This* is why on the day FSS was supposed to be coming home with FDH, all of the sudden, she wouldn't let FDH take FSS. *This* is why she refused to sign the CO while FDH was still there. *This* is why it took so long for her to sign PERIOD - because she was waiting for her attorney to re-type the CO! To make matters worse, the judge signed off on the copy BM and her attorney sent back to the court house, *NOT* the original FDH signed! OMFG! I want to strangle her untill her eyes pop out of her ugly freaking head!!!!

My baby is being born tomorrow morning at 7:30 and I so want to be excited, but I just can't. I am SO FREAKING PI$$ED!!!!!!