my husband and I met 6 years ago through a family member and have been though hell and high water together. He has a 14 year old daughter from a previous relationship and I have a 7 year old daughter from a previous relationship. For the first year of our relationship we maintained separate residences in different cities; but merged our households when we became very serious. However, it all went downhill with his daughter and I from there. I don't think any child is evil, but this little girl is pretty damn close.