Here's my story - I apologize in advance if it's too much reading! I have three children (22, 19 and 15 - with the two younger ones still at home - 19 year old is attending local college). My husband (we were married in July 2010) has two boys (21 and 17) - 21 year old is at college - 17 year old lives with his mother and visits us every Wednesday and every other weekend. When I initially moved in with my husband-to-be, his boys would visit on the appointed day/days and absolutely wreak havoc on the house.