My 23 year ols ss has moved home twice in the last two years. The first time he was there 3m and we got all of his fines paid off his lic. back and auto insurance. Also $2000 in the bank. Also he was smoking pot in our house and had no rules that his mom will uphold. She wants a relationship with him so bad she overlooks everything and comments let me handle it. Within two months of moving out in 05 he had 3 drug charges 1 Drunk driving and lots of traffic fines. Has been in jail twice and never paid a fine unless arrested. I have worried since then of him moving back.