Have an 11 yr. old granddaughter who loves my daughter's boyfriend. However, Christmas night I was very uncomfortable - she was laying across his lap, baring her stomach, all over him. I have never seen any potential stepdaughter act this way with a non-relative, no less a relative. Maybe I'm a grandmother, but it made everybody uncomfortable -she should be sitting next to him, or near him, but this was very physical. Am I wrong? She craves attention, and will do anything to get it. Grandma