My 23year old stepson has lived with from the time he wa 14 to 21. Moved away to go to school twice, and dropped out. Went to live with sister and brother who share a house, but they got tired of him not working, so he is back with us. He was in and out of trouble with police, and he will work for a few months and quit. now has'nt worked for a year, says he can't find anything. I told my husband I didn't want him here, but he let him move back anyway(my husband believes everything he says).