ok. I seriousy need to vent... I have a relationship with a great guy I have to know him since high school... well we just met up two years ago after both our marriages were a disaster wit last ex. Any way my fiance has 3 children  and so Do I. My children are 18 boy 16 boy and a girl whos 14. my step son the ones whos living with us is 13 thinks hes 20. has done the following..hollered scream at me.. got in my face like a drill sergent.. call me names.. curse at me.. swung at me..