I will be married five years this summer. And the dependency of his ex wife and three adult kids is getting worse. SD26 is living her passion which doesn't pay much, SS25 is trying his hand at working a normal job which doesn't pay much and SD 21 just announced that she's pregnant. Her boyfriend is not in a position to take care of the baby.
I have two kids BD 21 who is working hard at her studies and BS 12 who can never do anything right in DH59 eyes. He is a kid for goodness sake.